Wedding Wednesday: Jamie & Michael's Fun-Filled Wedding

"Our wedding was...

...more perfect than we could have ever imagined"! 

- Jamie & Michael 

Jamie & Michael got married this May at RiverCrest Golf Club in Phoenixville, Pennyslvania. They had a big party and jumped right in with their guests to enjoy every moment on the dance floor! Soon after the wedding, they flew to Antigua for a relaxing honeymoon and are now enjoying newlywed life! I'm happy to feature their wedding on Wediquette and thank them for sharing the day with us! Read on for their responses to our favorite wedding questions...

What made this celebration unique? Having a band was very important to us. We wanted to throw a great party where everyone started dancing immediately and danced all night long! They call it a New York style wedding. 

Venue- Why RiverCrest? Most people will tell you that things will go wrong on your wedding day. Nothing went wrong for us and that was due to the fact that RiverCrest is a well-oiled machine. They have it down to a science. The food was incredible, the venue is gorgeous and the staff was so eager and attentive! 

Advice for Future Brides & Grooms- For the grooms - men are easily distracted especially when there is a big party going on around you, but the best thing you could ever do is to give your undivided attention to your wife who owns the show that day. It's so worth it to see her in all the little moments that make her smile. Brides- take a moment to stop and absorb everything happening around you. It all goes by so fast, you will want to remember everything you can so sit back and look around at all the wonderful people that are celebrating you and your husband. 

Favorite Wedding Moment? Being introduced for the first time as husband and wife. It's an amazing feeling, entering as two and leaving as one. 

Honeymoon- Destination Antigua-  Where did you go? Cocoa Bay Resort. What did you do? We relaxed on the beach and in the pool, took a catamaran ride around the island, went snorkeling and really just enjoyed one another.  What tips do you have? Unplug and unwind and you will have an unreal experience. 

Vendors: 
Hair- Amanda D'Andrea. Absolutely amazing! Couldn't have been happier with my hair. 
Photographer- Lynda Berry Photography- Great to work with!
Videographer- Absolute Media Productions
Band- Renaissance Orchestra Band. Phenomenal!! Incredible!

Thanks, Jamie & Michael, for sharing your big day and 

we wish you 

the very best in your marriage! 

Amber & Dave's Marvelous, Matrimonious, Memorable May Wedding!

"Our wedding was...everything we dreamed of and more!  It was truly perfect.  We enjoyed every moment!"

- Amber & Dave

Last May, I was honored to be a bridesmaid in my friend Amber's wedding! She and I go back all the way to elementary school and I couldn't have been happier for her and her husband Dave as they said "I do". They are an amazing couple- complementing each other perfectly and bringing positive energy and adventure wherever they go. Their wedding day was the most beautiful Spring day. We (the girls) started the day getting ready at the hotel, then got onto a trolley (!) and rode to meet the guys at Dave's parents' house for the first look. Then we were off to Valley Forge Park for some amazing wedding party and bride & groom photos before we went to church for the ceremony and back to the hotel for the Cocktail Hour, Reception, After-Party, and the rest of the night! Everything flowed beautifully, the music was great, the food was delicious, and everyone was so antsy and excited to celebrate this couple that we couldn't wait until after dinner to hit the dance floor! 

Read on to hear about the big day in Amber's words (with a special cameo from Dave on his favorite part of the day)!

What Made This Celebration Unique?

I'm not sure our wedding was all that unique, to be honest.  There were a few things that we really knew we wanted: delicious food, a fun DJ, and an amazing photographer.  After that, we really didn't sweat too many of the details.  We did a few things DIY (seating chart & programs) and we were lucky to have Shayna in our wedding party so she added a few personalized touches (like our amazing card box!), but otherwise we really didn't go overboard on the extras.  We wanted classic and simple, and I think that approach really kept things stress free.

There was one thing, though!  After our first dance, Dave surprised me with a very special second dance.  He had been practicing some choreography with my bridesmaid Jes and he led me around the dance floor to John Legend's All of Me.  I was so surprised, it was something I will remember forever!

Another unique thing about our wedding was the midnight Wendy's delivery we arranged a friend to pick up and bring to the after party :)

Why Did You Choose the DoubleTree in King of Prussia as Your Wedding Venue?

We knew immediately when we visited that the DoubleTree was going to be the venue for our reception!  The ballroom was beautiful.  We loved that we could have our cocktail hour outside.  The package they offered was a great value and we really got a lot of bang for our buck!  The service was outstanding from day 1.

Also we had attended friends' weddings where the bride and groom were forced to clean up and take all their stuff with them that night and we knew we did not want to do that, so the fact that the venue cleaned up everything and we were able to pick it up the next morning was definitely a big selling point.   The warm chocolate chip cookies we received during our visit didn't hurt either ;)

We've been to so many weddings with shuttle fails, we knew we didn't want to have that at our wedding so a hotel made the most sense.  We also wanted a rocking after party and figured more people would attend if they didn't have to go anywhere, which was true and actually, a lot of our friends and family stayed over at the hotel even though they lived close enough to drive home since it was so convenient.

What Advice Do You Have for Future Brides & Grooms? 

Shayna and I have talked about this so many times that she beat me to the punch with her last post!  As mentioned above, don't have a shuttle fail!  If the shuttle is a 10 person van and your venue is more than 5 minutes away... it probably won't work!  It might work for the trips before, since people will leave staggered, but afterwards most of the guests will stay till the end of the reception and suddenly there will be a large crowd waiting for a tiny vehicle. We've been to weddings where we're standing outside with 50 other people seriously wondering if we're going to get left at the venue.

Something more general:  get everything in writing!  Our wedding coordinator promised me a free suite for my bridal party the night before... and then suddenly there was a new wedding coordinator halfway through our planning.  I was extremely happy when I had the previous coordinator's promises in an email.  Also, don't put an "&" in your instagram hashtag, it doesn't work!

What Was Your Favorite Wedding Moment? 

Amber:  Walking down the aisle!  I thought maybe having a first look would've downplayed that moment, but it didn't take away from it at all.  I felt overwhelmed with happiness.  It was amazing.

Dave (written to Amber):  It's really hard to pick just one moment as a favorite, I have two moments that come to mind. The first moment is during the ceremony getting to kiss you the first time, I think it's a favorite because of all of the emotions from watching you walking down the aisle, and the speeches from our friends and the pastors. All of those emotions just seemed to culminate when we had our first kiss. 

Another favorite moment would be our second first dance, the look on your face the entire time was a mix of surprise, nervousness and fun. I think I will always remember that as a favorite because I got to surprise you, which is nearly impossible with all the planning that went into the day. I also think the dance went really well which of all things going on that day I was most nervous for that dance. I knew you wouldn't have any trouble picking up the moves but I wasn't sure if I was going to be able to lead well enough, mainly because I am not the most coordinated dancer! 

Tell Us About Your Honeymoon! Where did you go? What did you do? What tips do you have? 

Nicaragua!  We spent half of our trip on Isla de Ometepe, a small island in Lake Nicaragua, staying in the cutest little guest house right on the beach between 2 volcanos!  We spent our time wading in the lake, eating the freshest fish, swimming in the mineral springs, lounging and relaxing.  The second half of our trip was on the west coast at Aqua Wellness Resort, where our room was up in the trees and every morning we would wake up to monkeys swinging around outside our windows.  Our room even had a private plunge pool!  We enjoyed yoga overlooking the ocean, a couples massage, and a sunset cruise.  We hiked into a neighboring surf town and drank cocktails with the locals.  We also went out for an amazing seafood dinner at a fancy resort down the street.

My biggest tip for honeymooners would be don't plan too much!  We thought we were going to hike one of the volcanoes on Ometepe, but once we got there we decided we really just wanted to lounge.  You've just gone through a crazy wedding weekend... relax and recover on your moon!  Also, do not leave for your honeymoon the next morning, give yourself a day to relax.  We woke up and had brunch, gathered our things from the hotel, and had the rest of the day to do any last minute honeymoon prep.

Just out of curiosity...What are a Couple of Gifts that you Received for your Shower or Wedding that Stand Out?
Our favorite wedding gift was a handmade quilt from Dave's groomsman Mike and his wife Jen, who created the quilt with the help of her mom.  We received the gorgeous gift at our rehearsal dinner and it was so unexpected and special.  Some more conventional gifts that we love and get a ton of use out of are our food processor, pots and pans, and vacuum (ok we're officially old lol).

Favorite Wedding Vendors? 
We would 100% recommend any of the vendors below:

• Venue:  DoubleTree by Hilton Hotel Philadelphia - Valley Forge
• Photographer:  Fuller Photography
• Florist:  Jenny Greenwald
• Cake: The Master's Baker (through a contract with our venue)
• Dress: Sabrina Ann's (would you believe my dress was consignment?!)
• Bridal Party Transportation: Philadelphia Trolley Works

I'm honored that Amber and Dave have shared their big day with Wediquette readers, and highly encourage you to check out more from her on her blog, Busy Bold Blessed.  She has more in-depth posts about the wedding, and also about healthy eating and living, her awesome experiences with the Whole 30, CrossFit and more. 

You should check it out & follow it!

A BIG congrats to Amber & Dave and a Happy 1st Anniversary!! Here's to many more years of happiness, great memories and dancing! 

By the way...

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Kelsea & Ryan's Penn State Wedding

“Our wedding was...a dream come true"

- Kelsea & Ryan 

Today's Wedding Wednesday post features a June 2014 New Jersey wedding celebrating the marriage of two Penn State alumni who truly bleed blue and white. While I don't know Kelsea & Ryan personally, I feel like we're family, as we're all Penn Staters and she reached out to me after reading the We Are...Getting Married post I wrote last year, happy to share her own PSU-themed soiree with Wediquette readers. Check it out below, and look for her answers to some of our most prominent wedding questions as you go! 

What made this celebration unique?

Our Penn State wedding theme made our celebration unique, and Penn State means a lot to us as alumni. We spent a lot of time at Penn State as we grew as a couple, established our friend group there, and Ryan even proposed to me at the Nittany Lion Shrine (a prestigious spot on Penn State’s campus)! 

   For the wedding, we incorporated Penn State, blue & white, and even the Nittany Lion into our decor wherever we could. At the ceremony, we had crystal chandeliers and blue ambiance lighting, white chairs with jeweled white wraps, and a custom aisle runner bordered by blue rose petals and featuring our logo (a Nittany Lion paw print with our monogram and wedding date) which later became our guest book. We had personalized blue & white pom poms for guests to shake as we exited as Mr. & Mrs., programs featuring one of our engagement photos, blue & white unity sand, and a glass that Ryan broke under the blue and white chuppah that was wrapped in a blue cloth. 

 For Cocktail Hour, we had a Nittany Lion ice sculpture, our floral arrangements fit right in with the color scheme, and our guests found their place cards for dinner at tables named for infamous PSU spots and activities such as The Berkey Creamery, The Allen Street Grille and THON. 

   During the reception itself, we had silver charger plates and blue napkins at each plate setting, silver and white centerpieces, and PSU colors across the Sweetheart Table. We had a blue light-up stand for our champagne glasses, and little figurines holding banners that said "I Heart PSU". The dance floor featured a custom spotlight with our logo, and lighting around the room showed off the color scheme. The cake was blue and white with paw prints and a topper that looked like the two of us sitting on top of the Nittany Lion shrine. I carried a blue & white jeweled brooch bouquet throughout the day, which matched the bridesmaids' blue and white dresses. Ryan and I entered wearing blue & white sunglasses, and we all had a blast!    

Tell Us About Your Venue- We had our wedding at the Versailles Ballroom at the Ramada in Toms River, NJ. We picked this venue because it had everything under one roof: ceremony, reception, after party and hotel!

Advice for Future Brides & Grooms- Enjoy every minute of your wedding. All the hours you spend planning it will fly by in 5 short hours. Make sure you take a step back and say WOW all these people are here for us! Soak in the moment.

Favorite Wedding Moment? I really can’t pick one favorite moment because the whole night was amazing. One thing that stuck out was during the garter removal when I “iced” my husband by placing a Smirnoff under my dress. “Icing” was a common practice at PSU parties we attended, where you surprise someone with a Smirnoff Ice bottle and they have to chug it on one knee. It was a funny surprise at the wedding, and made for a memorable moment.

Tell Us About Your Honeymoon- We went to Montego Bay, Jamaica! We did a lot of relaxing and drinking, but we also went zip lining which as a fun action-packed trip. It was nice to relax and spend time withi each other after the hectic months leading up to the wedding. One tip I would say is to leave the day after the wedding- it helped us really relax and reflect on all of the activities that went on.   

Vendors-

           Venue- http://www.versaillescaterers.com/

            DJ- http://www.eliteentertainment.com/

            Photographer- http://www.photosbyjan.com/

Kelsea & Ryan's wedding is also featured online here and here...because it's just that amazing! 

Thank YOU, Kelsea & Ryan, for sharing your big day with us! We are...wishing you the very best in your marriage and in your life together and are totally inspired by your blue & white pride! 

Note: Kelsea & Ryan have the rights to share all of their pictures, and we’re thankful to them for sharing (and Jan for capturing) their beautiful day!